Size Guide

Getting the right fit matters, whether you're ordering a handcrafted bdsm bondage collar or a piece of fetish wear from our adult toy store. Below you'll find simple, at-home instructions for measuring for a collar, along with waist, chest and thigh measurements for fetish wear sizing.

Collar Sizing

To find your collar size, you'll need a leather belt (or a similar strip of flexible, non-stretch material) and a tape measure or ruler.

1. Wrap around neck, mark overlap 2. Lay flat, measure between marks
  1. Wrap the belt around the neck to be sized, fitting it comfortably, not too tight and not too loose.
  2. Mark the belt at the point where it overlaps, as shown above.
  3. Lay the belt flat and measure the distance from one mark to the other.
  4. That measurement, in inches, is the collar size we need from you.

When a Measurement Is Not Possible

We make all our collars so we can usually accommodate everyone, even if you can't get a measurement.

If the collar is for a certain individual, you can probably come up with a rough guess as to what size they need. The average person usually has a neck size of about 15 to 16 inches. The smallest are about 12 inches, and the largest are about 24 inches. So if the person receiving the collar is a little smaller than average but not really small, their neck size would likely be somewhere around 14 inches. If they're a little on the large side but not real big, it's probably going to be about 18 to 19 inches.

Many of our collars use a lock hasp or roller buckle, which offers about 4 inches of adjustment. The measurement you give us will fall near the center of that adjustment range, and you can request extra holes too. If you're not sure of the size, asking for extra holes is recommended.

Fetish Wear Sizing

For fetish wear from our bdsm bondage adult toy store, we ask for three measurements: waist, chest and thigh. Use a soft, flexible tape measure (the kind used for sewing) rather than a stiff ruler, and keep the tape snug against the body without pulling it tight.

Waist Measurement

Wrap the tape measure around your natural waistline, which is the narrowest point of your torso, usually just above the belly button. Keep the tape level and parallel to the floor all the way around, and make sure it sits snug but doesn't dig into the skin.

Chest Measurement

Wrap the tape measure around the fullest part of the chest or bust. Keep the tape level and parallel to the floor, running it under the arms and across the shoulder blades in back.

Thigh Measurement

Wrap the tape measure around the fullest part of one thigh, typically a few inches below the crotch. Keep the tape level and snug, without compressing the skin.

Once you have your waist, chest and thigh measurements in inches, include them with your order notes so we can size your fetish wear correctly.

Questions About Sizing?

If you're unsure about any measurement, or the item you're ordering, feel free to reach out before placing your order. We're happy to help you get the right fit the first time.